So, I’m poking around the forabloggotwitplurkosphere and I’m seeing a few certain individuals have resorted to obsessing about hate.\u00a0 (^_^)<\/p>\n
“Hate”… That’s a pretty intense word.\u00a0 “To dislike intensely and\/or passionately” was the most concise definition I could find in under 30 seconds.\u00a0 (^_^)<\/p>\n
Now, sure, I spent a few years in self doubt, self loathing, and obsessed over where I was welcome or not.\u00a0 But, never in my own knowledge did I openly say anyone hated me.\u00a0 In addition, I don’t believe I’ve ever said I hate anyone.\u00a0 In fact, I’ve iterated quite often that I don’t hate.\u00a0 It’s just how I am.\u00a0 I’m lazy.\u00a0 Hate takes too much energy.\u00a0 It’s an active thing that you have to consciously participate in.\u00a0 I’m not prone to being that <\/em>active.\u00a0 (^_^)<\/p>\n So, what am I to think when I see someone say “They hate me” or “You hate me” or “The people that hate me”?\u00a0 If you’re a roleplayer, I’m sure you know what God Modding is.\u00a0 It’s a form of taking unfair control in a scene.\u00a0 Often it involves describing the actions and reactions of the other person.\u00a0 Well… “You hate me” is a God Mod.\u00a0 It’s applying a forced active feeling upon another person which most likely they’d disagree with. (^_^)<\/p>\n I’d even go further into the reality of accusing others of hate directed at you as a form of projection.\u00a0 The Hate-me-er often behaves like a snarling beast pointing out how evil and dastardly everyone else is except they them-self.\u00a0 The Hate-me-er often has an easy time making umbrella descriptions of their supposed haters.\u00a0 And, the best part is, the supposed haters are all looking around the room wondering what all the hubbub is about. (^_^)<\/p>\n It’s also a grand way of dehumanizing.\u00a0 To consider, my guess is that the Hate-me-er is trying to establish an enemy where there is none.\u00a0 So, even pointing and laughing becomes an “attack”.\u00a0 Heckling becomes a “crime”.\u00a0 And, every attack perpetuated by the Hate-me-er is a “push back”.\u00a0 Because, of course, they’re reacting to the beasts that hate them… right?\u00a0 Obviously not thinking creatures or they’d be pandering to your pleasures… right?\u00a0 (O.o)<\/p>\n … And here we go again… Looking around the room wondering what all the hubbub is about. (^_^)<\/p>\n From the looks of things, it takes a hater to obsess about hate.\u00a0 The mind that thinks any number of people are the enemy is surely not a mind at peace with the world.\u00a0 Blind rage, I’d say.\u00a0 (=_=)<\/p>\n “Blind rage”… I can work with that.\u00a0 (^_^)<\/p>\n How about… You are in a room with friends.\u00a0 If you were to close your eyes and simply start swinging your arms at anything you could collide with, everyone suddenly seems like an enemy.\u00a0 They’re out there, looking at you, defending themselves, trying to get on, and wondering what the hell you’re doing.\u00a0 As long as you keep your eyes closed, you’ll only find bodies to collide with and feel their defensive moves as threats upon yourself.\u00a0 Which, probably to no end, will drive you to simply swing harder.\u00a0 (>_<)<\/p>\n Well… There is an end.\u00a0 If you were to open your eyes, you’d see that you are surrounded by people who very likely love you, yet, aren’t willing and\/or capable of dealing with the battering you’re delivering.\u00a0 (._.)<\/p>\n If you were to open your eyes, you’d see the confusion on practically everyone’s face.\u00a0 They’re just like you only they can see. (>_<)<\/p>\n Of course, the crying shame is if you have two blind people in the same room.\u00a0 Because, now they pose a genuine threat.\u00a0 Not only has the potential for damage doubled, each blind person actually has an attacker to deal with.\u00a0 As the heat of the swinging, flailing, and battering continues; the crowd surrounding will surely pickup more damage as a result.\u00a0 While it would be just fine for at least one of the two to open their eyes, the optimum situation would be that all eyes are opened.\u00a0 But, that’s a dream. (._.)<\/p>\n A “dream”… Some of us almost enjoy having our eyes closed.\u00a0 Many of us are unaware we’re blind.\u00a0 Just as many are aware, yet, don’t know what it takes to see.\u00a0 (._.)<\/p>\n We all spend our times in blindness, I’m sure of it.\u00a0 That doesn’t make it a good state to be in.\u00a0 Particularly if that’s the way you decide to function your whole life.\u00a0 (>_<)<\/p>\n So, when thinking about the people who “hate” you, try to notice how blinded you are.\u00a0 There will be a person or people somewhere who genuinely hate, you’ll see them with your eyes open.\u00a0 But, the remainder… We can account for ourselves, thankyouverymuch.\u00a0 We’re not your enemy. (^_^)<\/p>\n So… Got Hate? (^_^)y<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" So, I’m poking around the forabloggotwitplurkosphere and I’m seeing a few certain individuals have resorted to obsessing about hate.\u00a0 (^_^) “Hate”… That’s a pretty intense word.\u00a0 “To dislike intensely and\/or passionately” was the most concise definition I could find in … Continue reading