{"id":477,"date":"2011-09-28T11:50:51","date_gmt":"2011-09-28T19:50:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darkly-cute.com\/blog\/?p=477"},"modified":"2011-09-28T11:50:51","modified_gmt":"2011-09-28T19:50:51","slug":"abusing-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/darkly-cute.com\/blog\/abusing-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Abusing abuse&#8230; (>.>)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Terms of Service. \u00a0It&#8217;s the law of the digital land. \u00a0A living document of what no-no&#8217;s apply to using the service. \u00a0All for all kinds of reasons like; Keeping admins out of court&#8230; Keeping the FBI from kicking doors in&#8230; You know, all the fun stuff. =^-^=<\/p>\n<p>So, SL has a ToS that it kind of doesn&#8217;t enforce. \u00a0I mean, people get banned for violating it all the time&#8230; But, also, people get away with murder for years simply because they haven&#8217;t been reported. \u00a0It&#8217;s a little unspoken rule. \u00a0I mention it often:<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;AR or it didn&#8217;t happen&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yeah, that. (^_^)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s kinda like the forum\/chat meme &#8220;pix or it didn&#8217;t happen&#8221;&#8230; It&#8217;s like, we won&#8217;t believe a thing until we see it first hand. (^_^)<\/p>\n<p>Well, really, Linden Lab will not act on anything until someone is bothered enough to report it. \u00a0Other than the rare case of a Labbie just happening upon really obvious stuff, just about everything slides until it&#8217;s reported. (-_-)<\/p>\n<p>But, how do they act? \u00a0It seems, if the claim &#8216;sounds&#8217; legit enough, they&#8217;ll pop right no it. \u00a0I&#8217;ve had a good number of Labbies land on my head moments after sending an AR. \u00a0Usually over pretty obvious and legit stuff. \u00a0So, I&#8217;m confident that they&#8217;re doing their job at least a little bit. =^-^=<\/p>\n<p>But, then there are peeps who lack that confidence. \u00a0That&#8217;s when we get AR parties. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>Okay, so when I AR something and I see no action, I let it pass. \u00a0I&#8217;m happy to assume I misinterpreted the ToS, a Labbie looked into my report, and there was no valid violation. (o.o)<\/p>\n<p>Lesson learned, no? (^_^)<\/p>\n<p>Well&#8230; No. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>For some people, that ain&#8217;t enough. \u00a0What started as &#8220;this person violated blabla by blablaing another blabla&#8221; to &#8220;I am not satisfied with how things are done and I will scream until you obey me!&#8221; DX<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s really what an AR party is saying, ain&#8217;t it? (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>I mean, if you think such a thing is actually\u00a0necessary, then you\u00a0probably\u00a0had a history of being ignored&#8230; Probably because you been crying wolf all along? =^-^=<\/p>\n<p>But, anyway, there are those out to &#8220;force the hands of the gods&#8221;&#8230; (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>Like, as a revenge move, ARing you for being underage or ageplay, or whatever kind of quick&amp;dirty thing will impact your account the most. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>I got a biiiiiiiiiig problem with this. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>Why? \u00a0Because sometimes, it works! (T_T)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen, over and over, people getting suspended and even terminated over things they&#8217;ve never done, filed by a person who simply doesn&#8217;t like them. \u00a0Which may just be a bit bad if the lab were to turn around and look at the details. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>I mean, they did with me. \u00a0Years ago. \u00a0I got B&amp; for &#8220;ageplay&#8221; while in a grown-up avatar, on PG land, dressed in a PG manner, during a PG building event. \u00a0I fought all high hell over it and got the lab to apologize. (^_^)<\/p>\n<p>Others ain&#8217;t been so lucky. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>I know of a couple people with completely terminated accounts based on vague claims of repeated violations of something they&#8217;ve possibly NEVER involved themselves in. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>Add, when appealing, they get told that no mistake was made. (T_T)<\/p>\n<p>Jeebus, a vigilante&#8217;s dream come true. DX<\/p>\n<p>And, of course, that&#8217;s who uses it most. (-_-)<\/p>\n<p>The big hubbub lately has been over the JLU and their practices of what&#8217;s starting to look like simply getting rid of anyone they don&#8217;t like. (O.o)<\/p>\n<p>Or, simply, peeps is abusing a system ripe for abuse. (-_-)<\/p>\n<p>And who gets in trouble? \u00a0Surely NOT the abuser. \u00a0According to docs, they reported a &#8220;wrong&#8221; and the lab acted appropriately. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>Blergh&#8230; \u00a0Not good!! DX<\/p>\n<p>I see this AR thingie&#8230; It needs reforming. (-_-)<\/p>\n<p>ARs need to be actionable and directly\u00a0connectable\u00a0to the ToS. \u00a0Instead of the existing (and outdated) list of reasons, put in a drop box of the actual ToS\/CS guidelines. \u00a0Yeah, that&#8217;ll make the form tougher to fill out, but, stick with me a minute. XD<\/p>\n<p>ARs need to be valid. \u00a0Once someone has picked the specific violation, it better be frigg&#8217;n true. \u00a0There should be a score against false or misleading ARs. \u00a0If this score adds up, well, THERE&#8217;s your abuser. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>But, that score, it&#8217;s gotta be real. \u00a0I mean, INVESTIGATE y&#8217;alls ARs. \u00a0A Labbie gotta be on the ball for any AR. \u00a0Since the ToS violation is clear-cut as picked from the list, shouldn&#8217;t be any guesswork, eh? (-_-)<\/p>\n<p>And, really, treat a false abuse report with the same impact as it would have had if the report were true. \u00a0If someone BLOODY LIES about another being a CP peddlar, well, they&#8217;re putting someone at risk of full-on termination and possibly even criminal investigation. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>What if someone were to do that in real life? \u00a0What if you&#8217;re enjoying a sno-cone while sitting on a public park bench and some psycho popps on the cell phone to report that you just fondled their kid? \u00a0It&#8217;s nearly the same, ain&#8217;t it? \u00a0Obviously, in scale it ain&#8217;t&#8230; Maybe. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>But, that&#8217;s the ticket. \u00a0At this moment, the environment is in place for someone to lie about you and effectively ruin your virtual life. \u00a0I&#8217;d love to say I&#8217;m being paranoid. \u00a0But, I&#8217;ve had it happen to me, I&#8217;ve seen it happen to others, and I&#8217;ve even seen the exposure of who&#8217;s doing it on a practically organized level. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a word for it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>FRAUD<\/p>\n<p>I like Second Life. \u00a0I don&#8217;t mind Linden Lab. \u00a0But, I can&#8217;t stand the pins and needles people tend to be on when such a threat to their account status looms overhead. (&gt;_&lt;)<\/p>\n<p>Wanna talk about customer retention? \u00a0Stop terminating your customers. (=_=)<\/p>\n<p>It will be work, but, that&#8217;s what we&#8217;re paying the Labbies for, ain&#8217;t it? 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